Thoughts and insights
The Love
The love, which falls to describe us so heavily, is the only real and lasting experience of our life. It is the opposite of fright, the middle of relations, the character of creativity - a complex part of its that we are. It is the source of the holiness, the energy, which connects us.
Love does not have anything to do with knowledge, education or control; it is beyond of behaviors. It is the only gift in the life, which one cannot lose. In the long run it is the only one, which we can give to another true fully. In a world of illusions, a world of dreams and emptiness the love is a source of the luck.
Despite of all its power and its size, its however difficult to hold on. Some spend their whole life to look for the love. We are afraid that we find it, again to lose it or will be afraid that it will not last.
We think, we would know how the love looks like, since in our childhood we made ourselves a picture of it. The usually picture is the romantic ideal: „If we meet these special persons, we suddenly will feel as a whole, everything become marvelous, and we will live in holiness“.
Of course someone hearts will be broken, if we must add some unromantic details in our real life, if we find out that a greater part of the love is conditioned, which we give and receive. Even the love for and from our family and friends is often based on expectations and conditions. These expectations and conditions remain mostly unfulfilled, and the details of the real life line up to a thread, which can cause a nightmare.
We often are in dearless friendships and associations. From our romantic illusions we awake in a world, which means to missing the love, into which we hoped as children. Now we view the love from a point of vision of the adult and see everything clearly, realistically and calculably and disappointed.
Fortunately the true love is possible, we can feel the love, for which we had hoped. It exists, but to not in our vision of love. It does not live in the dream that we will find a perfect partner or the best friend. The entireness, which we are looking for, is here, with us and in us, now, in the reality and at the moment. We need only to clarify this.
Most of us wish for the unconditional love, a love, which is based on us, which we are, not on that we are doing or not doing. If we have luck, much luck, we experienced some minutes of it in our life.
It is sad that a greater part of love, which we experienced in our life, is very conditioned. We loved around the things will which we do for others, how much we earn, how joyful we are, how we care for our children and instruct them, or how to leads our household and so on.
It is not easy to love the people in such a way as they are. It is almost, as if we would always look for the suspected reason, in order not to love the others.
